I'm Glad My Mom Died

Bookseller recommendation

“Ah, the book that everyone is talking about. I had to try it. As a person who had a troublesome relationship with my own mother (not as troubling at Jeanette's), I took comfort in Jeanette's journey into learning to heal and make peace with mother's actions. It is a hard book to listen to, but Jeanette's honest and head-on approach made me keep listening. As I've told others, don't let the title put you off. Being around my own mother and dealing with her was mental and physically exhausting. There are days I am glad my mom died, but I still love her. And like Jeanette, I've learned that not all mothers deserve the pedestal they've been placed on.”

— Terri • Swamp Fox Bookstore

Bookseller recommendation

“This is such a heavy and wonderful story. A rollercoaster of emotions with a light at the end of a very long and windy tunnel. Jennette McCurdy is such a strong woman, and even without knowing her personally, her story has made me so proud of who she has become and how far she has gotten. Very personal stories that are quite tragic, to super silly and comedic stories that'll probably have you laughing out loud. You will not regret this listen! ”

— Andie • Vroman's Bookstore

Bookseller recommendation

“From the eyes and experiences of a child-actress, Jennette McCurdy recounts her life with a heavy focus on how her mother developed, impacted, and controlled it. It’s a fascinating and heavy read, and the lasting effect it leaves will make you really think about how you view celebrities. They are just as human as everyone else and the lasting thought this book leaves is: 'I wish her the best'. ”

— Makayla • Tattered Cover

Bookseller recommendation

“Nickelodeon star Jennette McCurdy’s memoir of a childhood spent in the spotlight and under the thumb of her abusively controlling, narcissistic, cancer-surviving, Mormon mother is as bitterly funny as it is brutally honest. You will rage, cringe, gasp, cheer, laugh, literally scream out loud, hope against hope, and ultimately just root for McCurdy as she struggles to recover and reclaim her life. A triumph of real life horror, humor, and healing. ”

— Megan • Underground Books

Bookseller recommendation

“Woah! There is so much to unpack here. I put on the audiobook and finished it in two days because I just couldn't stop listening. I didn't grow up watching iCarly—coincidentally because I grew up Mormon—but Jennette McCurdy's memoir will strike a chord (many chords) with anyone who reads it. We could all do with a little more understanding on what it's like to be a child star, to have an abusive mother, to experience religious trauma, and to live with eating disorders and addiction. McCurdy tackles these subjects with the sensitivity of someone who understands while also being frank about how these experiences have affected and continue to affect her life. (And, if anyone is wondering, yes. That is how most Mormons think of the Holy Ghost.)”

— Kvothe • Rediscovered Books

Bookseller recommendation

“Wonderful read that draws you in with its intensity. While a lot of the content is heavy, there's an unflinching honesty about this memoir that is resounding and deeply touching. Not for the faint of heart (TW: eating disorders, child abuse, religious trauma)”

— Jayme • Second Flight Books

Bookseller recommendation

“This is one of the relatively few books that I explicitly recommend as an audiobook, because the book itself and the writing are phenomenal, but there is something in McCurdy's own recounting of her experience that makes the audio a must-listen. As much as the book itself is simply quality (which in retrospect makes me even more upset as to how her mother curtailed her creative pursuits) and dryly funny throughout, McCurdy's emotions are laden in her voice, especially as the story goes into darker and more vulnerable areas. However you may feel about the use of pathos in such a way, I do genuinely recommend this as a listen for those who can stand such a brutal recounting of a brutally complex relationship. ”

— Alice • Water Street Bookstore

Bookseller recommendation

“Such a great author-narrated memoir. It was like listening to a good friend tell a harrowing true story: you don’t want it to end, but you desperately want your friend to have a happy ending. It’s well-written and engaging and has important lessons about boundaries and difficult relationships. ”

— Monica • Chaek Out Books

Bookseller recommendation

“The audiobook is narrated by Jennette, which I think made the experience of reading this even more special. I went through just about every emotion while reading this book. Jennette goes into great detail on her experience as a child actor…and based on the title of this book, I think you can guess how that experience was. This gripping, shocking, emotional memoir will surely keep you on the edge of your seat. I’m Glad My Mom Died is a 2022 must read. TW’s: Eating Disorders, Physical and Emotional Abuse, Domestic Abuse, Sexual Abuse ”

— Quinnell • Annie Bloom's Books

Bookseller recommendation

“There is something about listening to a memoir narrated by the person who wrote it that makes one’s experience feel complete. McCurdy’s writing 'voice' and actual one give dry humor and a low folksy charm while describing truly harrowing abuses from her mother. She doesn’t hold anything back whether it’s her time on set on iCarly to her first sexual experience to the description of her vomit after a binge and purge. If you wanted a fun celebrity tell-all…this ain’t it. This is a survivor’s story.”

— Lissa • Book Club Bar

Bookseller recommendation

“This book shines a light on the trauma involved with the child star industry, compelling form start to finish. Made me very thankful for my Mum.”

— Georgie • Devonport Bookshop

Bookseller recommendation

“A phenomenal memoir that details the strengths of the author and her raging against the system that so harshly affects child stars, including those who enable them. Incredibly well written and fantastic to listen to. ”

— Grace • Boardwalk Books